
Romans 9:14-16
What shall we say then? Is there injustice on God's part? By no means! For he says to Moses, "I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion." So then it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy."
Paul has such a great and heavy burden upon himself for the sake of his Jewish people that he would give up his blessing in Christ if it were possible to bring them all to salvation in Him. He's grappling with the theological implications of Israel’s widespread rejection of Jesus as the Messiah. In this chapter Paul emphasizes God’s sovereignty, faithfulness to His promises, and the inclusion of Gentiles in His plan of salvation. Paul expresses deep personal anguish over his fellow Jews (verses 1-5), then defends the idea that God’s word has not failed despite Israel’s unbelief. He uses Old Testament examples to illustrate that God’s election is not based on physical descent or human merit but on His divine purpose and promise.
Paul directly ...
Romans 8:18-25
"For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the sons of God. For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of him who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to corruption and obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God. For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in the pains of childbirth until now. And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in this hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience."
Whether it’s personal trials, global crises, or the brokenness we see in the world around us, Paul doesn’t minimize it. Instead, he...
James 4:7-8
"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded."
Written by James, the brother of Jesus, this passage is part of a larger exhortation in his epistle about humility, resisting worldly influences, and pursuing godliness. James offers practical, action-oriented guidance for believers facing spiritual conflict. But James 4:7-8 isn’t just a formula for victory; it’s a call to active engagement in a spiritual war. The commands; submit, resist, draw near, cleanse, purify, all assume conflict is inevitable for those truly aligned with God. If there’s no resistance from the devil, perhaps there’s no real threat to his schemes because your faith isn’t disruptive enough.
The devil schemes strategically, targeting those who pose a risk to his domain. He prowls like a lion seeking to devour (1 Peter 5:8), but he doesn’t waste effort on the ineffective. Even so, he'll use those ineffective ones to drag down the strong, to weaken their ...
Hebrews 12:5-11
"And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons?
"My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives."
It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them. Shall we not much more be subject to the Father of spirits and live? For they disciplined us for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it."
Our victory in Christ isn’t tentative or repeatable; it’s already secured by Him. Romans 8:37 ...
PRAYER:
Start with the Kairos Community Prayer from pg. 11 of the Freedom Guide. Read it slowly and invite everyone to join if comfortable.
INTRODUCTION (1 minute):
Hi, everyone. My name is [Michael Gentile], and I’m a layperson just like many of you. Today, I’m talking about “Friendship with God.”
In the last talk, you heard you aren't alone, you heard about people out there who care for you—who are praying for you, writing notes, baking cookies, and drawing posters. That’s awesome, right?
It feels good knowing someone is sharing God's love and concern for you.
But…what if they really knew you?
The real you, with all the mess?
Would they still want to be your friend?
Good wishes are nice, but what we really need is a true friend—someone who sticks around no matter what.
I. What is a friend? (1 minute)
A. It’s not just someone who always agrees with you or takes your side. Sometimes, a real friend disagrees if they see you heading toward something harmful.
B. A friend is:
1. Someone who wants the very best for your life.
“The very best.”
2. A friend is someone willing to give a part ...
Romans 8:26-28
"Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose."
How many things work together for good?
ALL things work together for good for those who are called according to his [God's] purpose.
Who then are they that are called?
These verses declare that God sovereignly weaves every circumstance; joys, sorrows, triumphs, and trials, into a tapestry of ultimate good for His people. This isn’t suggesting that everything is inherently good or that we won’t face hardship; rather, it’s meant that we focus our attention on the promise of divine orchestration. Even in those things that seem chaotic or extremely painful today, can be redeemed for growth, ...
Genesis 6:11"Now the earth was corrupt in God’s sight, and the earth was filled with violence."
Matthew 10:34"Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword."
"And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household" (verses 35-36).
Ephesians 6:17"and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God."
Matthew 10:28Jesus said:"Do not fear those who kill the body."
Matthew 26:52"all who take the sword will perish by the sword"
"Christianity stands or falls with its revolutionary protest against violence, arbitrariness, and pride of power,"
Mark 7:6-9
And he said to them, "Well did Isaiah prophesy of you hypocrites, as it is written,"
"‘This people honors me with their lips, but their heart is far from me; in vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.’"
"You leave the commandment of God and hold to the tradition of men."
Acts 7:51-52"You stiff-necked people! Your hearts and ears are still uncircumcised. You are just like your ancestors: You always resist the Holy Spirit! Was there ever a prophet your ancestors did not persecute? They even killed those who predicted the coming of the Righteous One. And now you have betrayed and murdered him."
"You study the Scriptures diligently because you think that in them you have eternal life. These are the very Scriptures that testify about me, yet you refuse to come to me to have life."
Romans 1:22-25"Claiming to be wise, they became fools, and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and creeping things. Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves, because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen."
Ephesians 4:30-32"And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you."
Thessalonians 5:19-22"Do not quench the Spirit. Do not treat prophecies with contempt but test them all; hold on to what is good, reject every kind of evil."
Proverbs 16:18"Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall."
James 4:7-10"Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up."
The following night the Lord stood by him and said, "Take courage, for as you have testified to the facts about me in Jerusalem, so you must testify also in Rome."
Romans 8:16"The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God"
1 John 4:4"You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world."
Isaiah 40:8"The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever."