Matthew 26:1-2, 7
"When Jesus had finished saying all these things, he told his disciples, “You know that the Passover takes place after two days, and the Son of Man will be handed over to be crucified."
(7 ) "a woman came to him with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, which she poured on his head as he was reclining at the table."
Moving rapidly now towards the cross, the Lord once again predicts his coming execution. And we see two very different responses to this.
Matthew, Mark, and John all record the moment in which, "the woman with the alabaster jar", anoints Jesus' feet and hair with her spikenard perfume. In Luke's gospel the incident is timed somewhat differently, if in fact it is the same instance. Doctor Luke didn't witness the event, but he did interview eyewitnesses who had been a part of the scene. Add to this inconsistency, the mystery surrounding the identity of the women, and you have all the makings of a terrific dramatic moment that does in fact fulfill Jesus's prophecy.
Matthew 26:13
"Truly I tell you, wherever this gospel is preached throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of her."
In the story, according to Luke, Jesus received an invitation to dinner from a Pharisee named Simon. And so, that does seem to fit fairly well with much of the other accounts. But the focus is different. The setting doesn't seem to fit the week before the coming trial and the lesson is directed more at the Pharisee then towards the disciples, as is the case in the other gospels. And the life lesson is quite a bit different in some ways also.
In the three gospels besides Luke, the accusation is geared towards challenging Jesus about practicing what you're preaching. Jesus was often preaching about not being troubled in spirit, while at times he's in fact troubled in his own spirit. And here he's allowing this woman to "waste" her very expensive gift upon his feet and hair when the mission could certainly use this for a great advantage. And Jesus replies to these men...
Matthew 26:10
“Why are you bothering this woman? She has done a beautiful thing to me. The poor you will always have with you, but you will not always have me. When she poured this perfume on my body, she did it to prepare me for burial."
...he replied with a rebuke of sorts. He didn't call them fools as he did when they were loosing their minds in the floundering boat during the storm on the lake. But he sots of glibly said something like, "don't you understand, what would you do for me if you knew that today was the last day you'd have to be with me? Would you worship me? Would you pour out your love for me? Would you cry over me? Or are you going to sweat the details about temporary things?
Now, looking again at Luke's gospel, what do we know? First, in the eyes of the Pharisees, Jesus was unclean because this adulterous woman had touched him. Never mind the value of the perfume or even the expensive box she carried. This story is more about ritual cleanliness than it is about feeding the poor. And yet again, the women and her purpose hasn't changed. She remains in her mission which is to express her great love and appreciation for Jesus. While the Pharisees are losing their minds over propriety, she is worshipping Jesus. They didn’t realize that she was exactly the kind of person He came to set free.
Pulling it all together:
All these gospel stories about the women with the alabaster jar are just filled with a lifetime of devotion messages and sermons waiting to be written. If I just stopped here, I could write eight thousand plus words every day forever, just from this one follower of Jesus. Jesus was exactly right about her and her decision to bless him with her very expensive gift.
Today I want to focus upon her, and what she did. It took a lot of courage for this woman to go to that dinner at the home of the Pharisee as described in Luke's gospel. And likewise, it took great courage for her to go in before the disciples and approach The Lord, touching his hair, and pouring out her ointment upon him. Everybody there knew who she was and what she had done. And strangely enough, Jesus knew as well, yet for some reason she wasn't concerned about any of that.
Why was she so moved?
In Luke's gospel, the scripture says she wet his feet with her tears. That word wet translates to something like rain. Have you ever cried about something so profusely that the tears rained down out of you?
This woman was overcome with love for Jesus because of how much forgiveness she had received from him. She walks right into that space and ignores everyone there. She releases herself for him. She worships him with her tears. And she gives him everything she has to give. She gives the best of herself.
It's as if she was returning to church for the first time after having been gone for a very long time because of her falling away. She walked right into the place, walking right past all those people who knew her and her sin. And she walked right up to the front rows. Right past those glaring eyes and gnashing teeth.
And she worshipped.
She came with her hair uncovered!
"How dare she!"
She was a prostitute!
"How dare she!"
And she WASTED that perfume on him!
"How dare she!"
Don't imagine she wasn't terrified. Maybe she was a strong willed woman, maybe not. Regardless, she had to be feeling the hatred burning her skin as they glared at her. And likewise, she had to be playing over and over again in her mind all her own guilt that she'd been carrying for such a very long time. And as these men castigated her, and Jesus, for what she was doing, somewhere in the back of her mind she had to be screaming in fear and shame, guilt and anger, just a huge range of emotions.
In that moment Jesus said to her “Your sins are forgiven”.
And then He added, “Your faith has saved you….”
I think that she found the courage to do what she did because she understood something that the men in that place just didn't seem to understand. She understood that God could be trusted with her heart.
1 John 3:20
"for whenever our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart, and he knows everything."
The disciples apparently didn't trust Jesus with the funding of the poor, and apparently the Pharisees didn't trust Jesus with the forgiveness of sin.
In Luke's gospel, Jesus wasn't there to affirm her lifestyle, he was there to affirm her faith. In the other gospels, Jesus wasn't there to support their outreach to the poor giving programs, he was there to support her faith. That purpose was the same in all the gospels.
In Luke, the final thing Jesus said to the woman was “go in peace”. In the other gospels Jesus elevates her to the level of super-disciple by telling them that her story will last throughout all the ages. This unnamed woman will be right up there with Peter, John and James. And her discipleship is notably different than these others.
Unlike the others, she doesn't run away from Jesus. Unlike the others, she doesn't betray or deny Jesus. Unlike the others, we're not told what happens to her following the death, resurrection and ascension of Jesus Christ. And unlike the others, she doesn't have a church named after her.
Shouldn't there be?
Don't you think there ought to be, "The Church of the Women with the alabaster Jar"?
I think it's best that there isn’t. It's better that her beautiful worship and testimony isn't bastardized by the advent of yet another "church" denomination.
I like what Jesus said, "go in peace".
That's more than enough.
Her story is a wonderful picture of what a heart of worship looks like. It’s not a show, its not a liturgy, it’s not bright lights, and loud music. It's not about trying to impress God with our many words of prayer and elaborate perfect peace offerings. It's about a transformed heart that fully seeks God and wants to honor Him with everything she had to give.
Anointing Jesus as this woman did was a testament to her great love for Him. And a reminder for us all to worship Jesus from our love for him. Leave off the agendas, bring your heart and bring the best of you while you still have time.
#Forgiveness #Peace #JesusIsKing