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Ephesians 4:14
"so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes."
The winds of our modern doctrines aren’t just ancient heresies or philosophical debates anymore; they’re the rapid-fire trends, viral takes, hot-button opinions, and algorithm-fueled narratives that sweep across social media, news cycles, and cultural conversations every single day. One moment a certain viewpoint is everywhere; the next, it’s overshadowed by something new. Without Spirit empowered maturity, we’re like those small boats Paul describes. We're unstable, reactive, pulled in every direction by whatever seems compelling or popular in the moment.
Think about how much of what we believe, feel, or pursue is influenced by what we’re constantly seeing and hearing. A trending challenge pops up, and suddenly it shapes how we view beauty, success, or even contentment. Subtle deceptions, cleverly packaged half-truths, manipulative edits, or "cunning" arguments and endless debates disguised as wisdom...pulling people away from biblical anchors toward whatever aligns with personal desires or cultural pressures. Vague-posting for curiosity, ranting and raving, amplifying the sensational, the divisive. The church is divided over the most useless things.
We’re not meant to be gullible children chasing every shiny new idea; we’re called to be rooted, discerning adults who test everything against God’s unchanging Word. Not to walk as heathens who walk in the vanity of their minds. Unfortunately the platforms reward engagement, often amplifying the conversation with greediness and self worth.
Whatever motivates your actions is what informs your conversation. How we speak; not just what we say, but why we say it, is what defines us. If it's love that motivates us it will become a word in Christ. If it's from greed it will be from something else.
Luke 6:45
"Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks"
Chasing likes, clout, or self-justification rather than Christ-centered love. Viral debates, vagueposting, rants, cunning debates. Divided hearts chasing vanity instead of maturity. "The mouth speaks what the heart is full of."
This may be the trendiest thing, but it's not the Godliest. Paul teaches we should speak truth in love, and he's absolutely right to say so. Truth does matters, but love isn’t an optional seasoning we sprinkle over everything when it seems convenient. In fact it’s the command. It's in fact "the truth" that Jesus came to give testimony to.
Ephesians 4:15
"Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ."
So this should be our guiding motivation, "to grow up...into Christ." When defense of truth leaves love as collateral damage, we need to return to the Source. Not dividing the body over our vanities. But anchoring our conversations in the unchanging Word, testing everything, and letting love shape every word.
Heart check first:
What’s filling my heart?
Choose love-motivated speech:
Be the steady voice that builds up; that guides, teaches, evangelizes, and encourages faith.
Reject the reward system:
Step back from rage-bait, clout-chasing, or useless debates that attempt to establish tribalism.
Grow into the Head:
Not a pumpkin head of puffed-up knowledge, not a steeled helmet of defensiveness, but a steady love that stands firm against the winds of change.
Godliness trends eternal.
In a world full of vanity, let’s be people whose conversations overflow with Christ; rooted in truth, loving in nature, mature in our motives. Even if it gets fewer views. Invest in real relationships where maturity happens through humility and service, not performance.
Christ Jesus is the Head, the source of life, direction, and unity. As we grow into Him "in every way," our conversations should overflow with His character.
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If Paul were to post his epistles today he'd spark off a viral wave of responses like; "Paul is toxic 😤"; "Unapostolic tone. Un-Christlike delivery."; "Why I’m Unfollowing Paul."; "I’m not saying he’s wrong, BUT he could’ve said it nicer."; "That language is spiritually abusive!"; "Tone policing the Apostle? Cancel culture much?"
This isn’t hypothetical speculation; it’s already playing out in real-time Christian conversations all over social media platforms.
Paul’s letters weren’t polite newsletters; they were urgent, passionate, sometimes fiery pastoral interventions. He called out false teaching, rebuked immaturity, and defended the gospel with unfiltered urgency. Truth spoken in love sometimes stings to heal, corrects to build up, and confronts to restore. When hearts chase comfort, likes, or tribal affirmation over Christlikeness, we become the very "foolish" ones Paul was calling out.
The real trend isn’t Paul’s tone; it’s our redefinition of love as perpetual niceness, where any discomfort gets flagged as abuse. Outrage gets engagement, nuance gets buried, and correction gets canceled. If Paul posted today, he’d probably get ratioed hard, but his words would still stand as Spirit-breathed truth.
Let’s not be the generation that unfollows the Apostle because his delivery doesn’t fit our feeds. Speak truth in love, grow up into Christ, and let correction (even the uncomfortable ones) lead to deeper roots of faith.
Amen?