God Wants Our Whole Lives, Not Just Our Wallets
2 Corinthians 8:21
"for we aim at what is honorable not only in the Lord's sight but also in the sight of man."
Paul passionately urges the Corinthian church, a predominantly Gentile congregation, to complete their generous contribution to a relief fund for the believers in Jerusalem. The Jerusalem church, largely Jewish, faced severe poverty due to famine, persecution, and economic hardship. This offering was not just charity, it was a profound act of grace intended to heal relational wounds between the Gentile and Jewish sects. And Paul handles the collection with meticulous transparency, ensuring that the gift will be received without suspicion, bridging the divide and glorifying God.
A central theme running through 2 Corinthians 8 (and into chapter 9) is that God evaluates generosity not by the size of the gift but by the sacrifice it represents, the personal cost to the giver. Paul drives this home powerfully in verses 1–5 by highlighting the Macedonian churches. Despite “extreme poverty” and “severe affliction,” the Macedonians begged earnestly for the privilege of participating. Their giving was extravagant because it cost them deeply, it came out of deprivation, not surplus.
Truth is, God doesn’t just want a percentage...He wants everything.
Under the new covenant, Jesus and the apostles radically deepen this principle. Jesus watches the widow’s offering, a mite which was about half a penny (Mark 12:41–44) and declares her two small coins worth more than the large sums of the rich, because she gave all she had to live on. The issue wasn’t the percentage but the totality of surrender.
The ultimate model of generosity is Jesus Himself:
2 Corinthians 8:9
"For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich."
Christ didn’t give God 10% of His glory. He emptied Himself completely. If our giving is to reflect His grace, it cannot stop at a percentage; it must flow from a heart that recognizes everything we have is His already.
True biblical generosity is total stewardship...surrendering every area of our life:
• Our money (as a visible expression)
• Our time
• Our talents
• Our ambitions
• Our relationships
• Our very bodies as "living sacrifices"
Paul captures this as he describes the Macedonians’ giving:
"They gave themselves first to the Lord and then by the will of God to us."
"First to the Lord." That’s the order.
Fact of the matter is, God isn’t after your 10%. He’s after you, all of you. He's after your spirit of grace. When He has all of you, your money, time, your grace, and everything else will follow gladly. Not for appearances, but because the offering is a sacred trust. Wholehearted devotion breeds integrity. Therefore, if our resources truly belong to God, we steward them with the utmost care.
Somebody is probably thinking:
I know the "right" answer. Of course He wants everything. I’ve heard it preached, nodded along in sermons. But lately I’ve been asking myself honestly, do I actually live like it’s true? I’m good at the 10%. My direct deposit to the church hits every payday; predictable, painless, even a little pride-making. I can point to that line item and feel responsible, faithful, "biblical". But when I read about the Macedonians who, in "extreme poverty", overflowed with joy and begged to give beyond their means, something in me winces. Their giving cost them. Mine usually doesn’t. The deeper truth that stings most is that God isn’t primarily after my money. He’s after me. My time. My comfort. My plans. My reputation. My control.
I catch myself negotiating with Jesus:
"Okay, Lord, You can have Sunday mornings and 10% of my income...but the evenings are mine. My career trajectory is mine. My savings buffer is mine. My image is definitely mine."
But Paul says the Macedonians "gave themselves first to the Lord"
First. Before the offering. Before the amount. They surrendered the steering wheel of their lives, and extravagant generosity followed naturally.
If I’m brutally honest, I often reverse the order. I give God what I decide I can spare, then cling tightly to the rest, telling myself I’m being prudent, responsible, wise.
Jesus calls that kind of holding-back something else entirely; fear, not faith.
the real test isn’t "Did I tithe?" but "Is there anything I’m unwilling to release if He asks?"
When certain things feel untouchable, I’m not really giving God everything. I’m giving Him what’s convenient.
And here’s what convicts most, Paul’s commitment to integrity in both God’s sight and man’s sight. He knew that partial surrender in one area breeds carelessness in others. If I’m holding back privately from God, it will eventually show publicly; in how I spend my time, how I treat people, how I honor my commitments, and how I handle my resources.
So I’m praying a dangerous, honest prayer these days:
Lord, show me the places I’m still clutching. Teach me what it feels like to give myself first to You; not just my money, but my whole life. Make my giving costly again, because I want my heart fully Yours. I want to live like someone who has already been given everything in Christ.
Father, thank You that You gave Your Son completely so I could belong to You entirely. Help me live like it’s true. In Jesus’ name, Amen.