Love’s Greatest Longing: A Church Built Up by the Living Voice of Christ
1 Corinthians 14:1-4
"Pursue love, and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts, especially that you may prophesy. For one who speaks in a tongue speaks not to men but to God; for no one understands him, but he utters mysteries in the Spirit. On the other hand, the one who prophesies speaks to people for their upbuilding and encouragement and consolation. The one who speaks in a tongue builds up himself, but the one who prophesies builds up the church."
Paul never lets the Corinthians forget the "more excellent way" he just sang about in chapter 13. Gifts without love are noise; love without gifts is an incomplete gospel. And that really gets to the heart of the matter, why doesn't love rejoice any of these things?
Love alone does not "rejoice in these things" (the public, uninterpreted display of tongues that dominated the Corinthian gatherings) for the simple reason that such displays were not expressions of love at all. They failed the test of 1 Corinthians 13:5: love "does not seek its own." And in the same way, love absent the building up of the church in the gospel is of no consequence. Love that is divorced from the upbuilding of the church is not the love of 1 Corinthians 13.
You may ask, "how can love be a negative force"?
Love itself can never be a negative force, because "God is love" (1 John 4:8) and everything God is, is wholly good.
What can become a negative, destructive thing is the idolization of a certain idea of love that is stripped of its biblical shape and reduced to mere sentiment, niceness, or letting everyone do what feels spiritual to them. That is not 1 Corinthians 13 love; it is a counterfeit that Paul would have called "love, so-called."
Here’s how that counterfeit works itself out in practice, even today:
"I have to love people, so I can never correct or restrict anyone’s expression in the meeting."
Result: chaos, confusion, and the trampling of the weak (exactly what was happening in Corinth).
"If I make someone stop speaking in tongues without interpretation, I’m quenching the Spirit and failing to love."
Result: the meeting becomes a stage for the loud and the gifted, while the ungifted, the visitor, and the unbeliever are marginalized (14:23–25).
"Love means I celebrate whatever anyone says is their experience of God."
Result: truth is sacrificed, immaturity is reinforced, and the church never grows up "into Him who is the Head" (Ephesians 4:15).
This is love turned inward, love that has forgotten the cruciform pattern:
Jesus laid down His rights so that others could be built up into life. The moment love refuses to lay down my freedom for the edification of my brother or sister, it has stopped being agape and has become just another form of self-seeking.
Paul’s logic is mercilessly clear:
If an activity in the gathered church does not edify the body, love must restrain it (14:26–28, 30–31, 40). If love will not restrain it, then whatever is driving the activity is not love. a supposed "love" that protects disorder, shields immaturity, and prioritizes my experience over the growth of the family is not only useless; it is positively harmful. It is the very thing Paul is opposing with every ounce of apostolic energy in this chapter.
Friends, truth is, true love is willing to be thought unloving for five minutes if it secures the health of the family for fifty years. That is the love of the cross, and that is the only love that has the right to govern the gifts of the Spirit.
All that said to lead into this subject of the gift of tongues. Paul is exhorting the church to covet earnestly the better gifts, and mainly prophecy because that word from God builds up the church in faith and spirit.
Why prophecy above all?
Prophecy is intelligible revelation, exhortation, or comfort from God through a human being (14:3). It strengthens, encourages, and consoles, the hearers. And it comes through the full worship of Christ, not limited by our narrow channel of intellect. it is the living voice of the risen Christ ministering to His bride through His Spirit-filled people. It is not cold information; it is revelation that lands in the heart with power. It is not mere human wisdom; it is the Spirit taking the things of Christ and declaring them to us (John 16:14–15) in a way that is immediately understandable and life-giving.
Prophecy is Spirit-to-spirit communication that the renewed mind can grasp and the whole person (mind, emotions, will, conscience) can receive. The church is strengthened in faith and doctrine. Believers are stirred to persevere and obey. The broken are comforted with the comfort of God Himself. And it is in these things that God creates the word of God.
People often debate about the formation of the gospels and New Testament scriptures, speaking about them as if they are the mere works of human exercises. But it is this gift of prophecy that accomplished these things. This very letter of Paul's is an example of that prophetic gift. When we read 1 Corinthians (or any of Paul’s letters, or the Gospels, or Revelation), we are not holding the product of detached scholarly research or mere human recollection. We are holding Spirit-breathed prophecy in written form.
Paul himself makes this explicit:
"If anyone thinks that he is a prophet or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things I am writing to you are a command of the Lord" (1 Cor 14:37).
In other words, Paul is exercising the very gift, prophecy, he has just told the Corinthians to covet earnestly. He is speaking (and now writing) "to people for their upbuilding and encouragement and consolation" under the direct inspiration of the Holy Spirit. The same Spirit who moved the Old Testament prophets (2 Peter 1:21) is now moving in the apostles and prophets of the new covenant to lay the foundation of the church (Ephesians 2:20).
"For no prophecy was ever produced by the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit." (2 Peter 1:21)
The Gospels are no different. Luke tells us he carefully investigated everything (Luke 1:1–4), but he wrote under the same Spirit who "will guide you into all the truth...and declare to you the things that are to come…He will glorify Me, for He will take what is Mine and declare it to yo" (John 16:13–14). That is prophetic ministry in narrative form.
So by this prophetic definition, prophecy "speaks to people for their upbuilding, encouragement, and consolation"; and likewise uninterpreted tongues fails that test completely. If someone stands in the meeting, speaks in tongues, and then gives (or someone else gives) a vague, generic, or self-serving "interpretation" that does not actually strengthen, encourage, or console the church in a clear, Christ-centered way, Paul would say, that is not functioning as the prophetic gift he just told you to desire. If a church meeting treats uninterpreted tongues (or regularly weak, repetitive "interpretations" ) as the main way God speaks prophetically to the congregation, they have inverted Paul’s entire argument and are very likely manufacturing something the Spirit never gave.
Anything...tongues, interpretation, or anything else...that does not end in the church actually being built up is, in that moment, not prophetic, no matter how spiritual it feels or how loudly it is announced to be "a word from the Lord." And the most common root of that error is the very loveless self-seeking he has been correcting all along.
Therefore the safest, most exegetically faithful stance is; expect the gifts, desire them (especially prophecy), but insist that they function exactly the way Paul regulates them in 1 Corinthians 14, under the lordship of love, for the building up of the church, in decent order, and always rigorously tested by Scripture.
Closing Prayer
Lord Jesus,
You are the living Word who still speaks by Your Spirit.
Fill us with love that refuses noise and demands edification.
Give us prophecy; clear, Christ-exalting, faith-strengthening words
that build Your church in truth and power.
Let nothing counterfeit stand in our gatherings.
Make us a people who hear You, obey You, and love one another fiercely.
Until we see You face to face, keep speaking.
We are listening.
Amen.