The Way of Love - Everything Else Is Noise
1 Corinthians 13:4-10
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away."
The church in Corinth was gifted, passionate…and deeply dysfunctional. To put it simply, they were a mess.
They were tolerating blatant sexual immorality that even pagans found shocking. They were dividing over which spiritual leader was greatest. They were taking each other to court. They were turning the Lord’s Supper into a display of social class and drunkenness. And most importantly in the context of today's exposition, they were obsessed with the flashier spiritual gifts; especially speaking in tongues, prophecy, and knowledge, and using them as status symbols. People were interrupting each other in worship, speaking in tongues with no interpretation, and basically turning church gatherings into a spiritual talent show.
And for that reason Paul sandwiched chapter 13 and a hard truth bomb inbetween 12 and 14 in order to square this circle.
"You can have the most spectacular gifts in the world; prophesy like Isaiah, speak in angelic languages, know all mysteries, but if you don’t have love, it’s just annoying noise" (13:1–3).
This famous description of love wasn't written to bless a wedding party, it is written precisely because spiritually gifted people were misusing the gifts. And the gifts themselves were not the problem; but the prideful, envious, selfish way they were being exercised was.
Why Doesn’t Love Rejoice in Wrongdoing or Boast, Envy, etc.?
Every negative trait Paul lists is something he has already seen or will soon address in this same letter. The portrait of love in 13:4–7 is not a random collection of nice virtues; it is the mirror-image antidote to the specific sins plaguing the Corinthian church. And Paul is showing that love is also the character of God Himself, revealed perfectly in the cross. All the gifts; tongues, prophecy, knowledge, are temporary scaffolding for the church in this age. When "the perfect" (the consummation of all things at Christ’s return) comes, those partial gifts will disappear. But love abides forever because love is eternal, it remains because God is love.
1 John 4:8
"Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love."
So the 13th chapter is both corrective (stop acting like this!) and eschatological (aim for what lasts!).
Paul is holding up a mirror towards the spiritually challenged people of the Corinthian church:
"This is not the way of the Spirit; this is the way of the flesh dressed in religious clothing."
Today "the church" should hear these verses with Corinthian ears:
"You want to be spiritual? Fine. Here’s the only proof that actually counts; love that looks like Jesus, not love that looks like Corinthian pride."
Folks, this exposition on love mirror's Jesus' teaching:
Love is patient - "Blessed are the meek"; "Blessed are the merciful"
Love is kind - "Do to others whatever you would have them do to you"; "Give to the one who asks"
Does not envy - "If anyone wants to take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well"
Does not boast / is not proud - "When you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right is doing…do not announce it with trumpets"
Not arrogant / puffed up - "Whoever exalts himself will be humbled"
Not rude / dishonors others - "Whoever says ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire"
Does not insist on its own way - "If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn the other also"; "Go with him two miles"
Not irritable / easily angered - "Settle matters quickly with your adversary"
Does not keep a record of wrongs - "Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors…If you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive you"
Does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth - "Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness"; "Let your light shine…that they may see your good deeds"
Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things - "Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you…rejoice and be glad"; "Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you"
1 Corinthians 13 is Paul saying, "That same character of God who is love, that Jesus taught his people at his sermon on the mount, must now be reproduced in the way you treat one another in the church."
Jesus in Matthew 5–7: "This is what citizens of my kingdom look like in the world."
Paul in 1 Corinthians 13: "This is what citizens of that same kingdom must look like toward each other inside the family."
So Paul simply takes Jesus’ ethic, translates it into the language of agape, and says, "Without this, all your spirituality is just noise."
Closing Prayer:
Lord Jesus,
You taught us on the mountain and loved us from the cross.
Forgive our noisy, loveless spirituality.
Kill our pride, envy, and resentment.
Make us patient and kind, quick to forgive, eager to bear with one another.
Let Your church love exactly like You; so the world will know we are Yours.
Amen.