1 Corinthians 8:1-3
Now concerning food offered to idols: we know that "all of us possess knowledge." This "knowledge" puffs up, but love builds up. If anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know. But if anyone loves God, he is known by God.
The Greek word for "puffs up" (φυσιοῖ) is the same word used for blowing up a wineskin or inflating a balloon. Knowledge, when it is divorced from love, makes us bigger in our own eyes and smaller in everyone else’s. It turns theology into a weapon, spiritual insight into a status symbol.
Love, on the other hand, "builds up" (οἰκοδομεῖ). Same root as the word for architect or house-builder. Love doesn’t inflate the self; it constructs something outside the self. Where knowledge says, "I’m free to eat," love asks, "But will my eating cause my brother to stumble?"
So, the fact of the matter is, you can be factually correct and still fundamentally ignorant. You can ace the systematic theology exam and flunk Knowing God 101. And that kind of knowing is mutual.
"But if anyone loves God, he is known by God."
We can spend the entirety of our lives knowing about God and his kingdom. Reading, studying, debating, proving, and reproving. But notice the reversal, Paul says the direction that ultimately matters is the other way around. We are known or not known by God.
This brings to mind Christ's words, "Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven…Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’" (Matthew 7:21–23).
The people Jesus turns away are not the ignorant or the apathetic. They are the knowledgeable, the active, the accomplished. They prophesied in His name. They drove out demons. They performed many miracles. If anyone could have passed the "systematic theology exam," it was them. And yet the verdict is the same: "I never knew you." To not be known by Him is to be a stranger at the final door, no matter how loudly we shout our résumé.
So what happened? How was it that Christ didn't know these people?
Jesus promises that in the age to come we will "know as we are fully known" (1 Corinthians 13:12).
This is not information transfer. It is a covenantal, relational, heart-to-heart recognition. To be known by God is to be chosen, cherished, delighted in, kept. You can be right about idols, right about liberty, right about theology, and still hear "I never knew you" if your knowledge has not been shaped and softened by love. Love is the evidence that we have moved from knowing about God to being known by God. Love is the only thing that survives the judgment seat, because love is the only thing that participates in the very life of God Himself.
1 John 4:7-8
"Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love."
So the question each of us must carry all day today is not "How much do I know about scripture, traditions, history, and culture?"
but
"Am I being known, really known by the One who searches hearts?"
And the litmus test is brutally practical: Am I quick to insist on my rights, or quick to lay them down for the sake of a weaker brother or sister? Am I puffed up by my religiosity and devotion to my tradition or am I looking to share unconditional love with my Christian family in all of its forms?
1 John 4:7–8 is the death sentence for every form of loveless orthodoxy.
John doesn’t say, "Whoever is correct about the atonement knows God." He doesn’t say, "Whoever keeps the feasts, defends the creeds, or votes the right way I vote knows God." He says, "Whoever loves (present, active, ongoing) has been born of God and knows God."
Love is not an add-on to God’s nature, one attribute among many. Not "God is loving." Not "has love." God IS love. Love is the essence without which He would not be God.
The good news about the "Good News" (the gospel), is that the direction can be reversed in a moment. The same John who writes "If we love one another, God abides in us" also writes "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us…"
I do not need to win theological battles.
I need to love.
Because the One who searches hearts already knows me completely, and in Christ He loves me still. This is what sets me free to lay down my rights, my reputation, my need to be the smartest Christian in the room. It is the only infallible proof that I've have passed from death to life, and that I am truly, deeply, and eternally known.
C.S. Lewis said it like this:
"Only 'Agape' (Unconditional Love) can take the other three loves and keep them from turning into demons. Without it, 'Storge' (Affection) becomes cronyism, 'Philia' (Friendship) becomes a mutual admiration society, 'Eros' (Romantic/Sexual Love) becomes jealousy and possession. With it, every natural love is raised, purified, and made eternal."
Beloved, let us love one another.
Amen.
Not with the brittle love of the puffed-up, but with the strong, humble, self-giving Agape that alone proves we are born of God, known by God, and safe forever in the only Love that will never let us go.