Dirty Feet, Clean Hearts: Embracing Christ’s Call to Forgive
John 13:1
Now before the Feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that his hour had come to depart out of this world to the Father, having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.
Chapters 13 through 17 covers a period of time that is somewhere between 24 and 36 hours. It begins the night that Jesus was betrayed. John devotes almost a fourth of his gospel to the events that took place in this period. John unveils the heart and soul of Jesus in this portion of his book.
Jesus here is said to have loved his disciples to the uttermost, or to the bitter end. In another verse Jesus shares with his disciples that there is no greater love than to give one's life for a friend. This is what it means to love them to the uttermost most, to the very end of the completion of their deliverance.
Up to this point Jesus has been heard to say often that "the hour has not yet come", the hour that he would make his supreme sacrifice, but now finally we've arrived at that hour. That is the hour in which he's to be glorified. And now the devil puts wickedness into the heart of Judas to betray him. Jesus knows this has happened. And his response is to assume the posture of a servant, a bond slave. He takes a towel and water and washes the feet of his disciples.
John 13:6-9
He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, "Lord, do you wash my feet?"
Jesus answered him, "What I am doing you do not understand now, but afterward you will understand."
Peter said to him, "You shall never wash my feet."
Jesus answered him, "If I do not wash you, you have no share with me."
Simon Peter said to him, "Lord, not my feet only but also my hands and my head!"
Reflection:
As we walk with Jesus through our time in the world, we pick up filth along the way. It's impossible to avoid it unless you've closeted yourself away forever. What Jesus has done for them was to cleanse them with his word, and now he washes their feet because he knows that they are sheep among wolves and in fact a wolf is amongst them at that very moment. It's in part a physical cleansing, but in truth it's a calling out of that betrayer.
John 13:12b-16
he said to them, "Do you understand what I have done to you? You call me Teacher and Lord, and you are right, for so I am. If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another's feet. For I have given you an example, that you also should do just as I have done to you. Truly, truly, I say to you, a servant is not greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him."
Jesus’ love is unwavering, even in the face of betrayal and suffering. How can you reflect this steadfast love in your relationships, especially when faced with difficulty, disrespect, dishonor, or disloyalty? Consider moments in your life when you face a difficult "hour." How can you trust God’s timing and purpose, as Jesus did?
I think there's a lot for us to unpack in this teaching. There's quite a lot of wisdom to glean from this. But today, for me, I'm clued in on the lesson that cleansing is necessary for fellowship with Christ.
"If I do not wash you, you have no share with me"
The fact of the matter is, fellowship with Christ, intimate communion and participation in His life, requires spiritual cleansing. The Greek word for "share" (meros), spoke to the inheritance, the portion of the blessings Jesus offers those who love God. In the cultural setting, feet got dirty from walking dusty roads, or even just walking out from the bath into the dressing area. It takes almost no time to become defiled again. Jesus’ act of washing the disciples’ feet symbolizes the need for ongoing cleansing from the "filth" we pick up in a fallen world. We may love God and follow His Son, but trouble finds us. Often in confusion and misunderstandings. And very often through misinformation, outright lies, false testimonies and rumors.
Jesus is teaching about being "doers of the word", while His death on the cross provides complete atonement for sin (John 19:30; 1 John 1:7), daily exposure to sin, whether through thoughts, actions, or the world’s influence, requires continual renewal to remain in close fellowship with Him. This isn't to say that we must be doing works of salvation in order to remain in Christ. Fellowship with Him depends on His cleansing power, not our own efforts. We see this in Peter's response to Jesus' foot washing. Peter’s initial refusal ("You shall never wash my feet!" ) reflects his pride and his misinterpretation, but his quick pivot to "Lord, not my feet only but also my hands and head!" (John 13:9) shows his desire for full inclusion. Jesus clarifies in John 13:10 that those who are "bathed" (fully cleansed by His salvation already) only need their feet washed, symbolizing ongoing confession and repentance. In another word, check yourself.
1 John 1:9
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Just as our feet get dirty daily, our spiritual lives need regular "washing" through prayer, confession, and immersion in Scripture. Unconfessed sin or unchecked worldly influences can hinder our intimacy with Christ.
Examine Your Heart:
Take a quiet moment to ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any "filth" (e.g., resentment, pride, or distractions) that have accumulated. Confess it to Jesus, trusting His promise to cleanse you of it (1 John 1:9). Spend time in Scripture, letting it wash over you. A verse like Psalm 51:7 ("Wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow" ) or Ephesians 5:26 (Christ cleansing the church "by the washing of water with the word" ) can help to guide your prayer life. Just as Jesus washed Judas’ feet, consider how you can show grace to others, even those who've wrong you, as a reflection of His cleansing love.
Always remember that how you forgive is how you will be forgiven:
Matthew 6:12
"And forgive us our sins, as we also have forgiven those who have sinned against us.”
Be sure someone has actually sinned against you before you hold them accountable for a rumor. The Lord's prayer is a beautiful and humble plea for God’s cleansing mercy, rooted in the recognition of our own need for forgiveness and our commitment to extend that grace to others. This mirrors the necessity of being "washed" by Him to maintain fellowship. This act of grace keeps our hearts clean and open to fellowship with Christ, free from the "filth" of bitterness and resentment.
I confess, this is indeed an area of my spirit that needs a great deal of help from the Lord. And I know that I've failed in this regard often. And to make matters worse, I know better. It's not because I'm ignorant to Christ's example. I know that I need to trust that God has heard my prayer and forgiven me. I know that I need to meditate on this. I know that I need to explore more Scriptures on forgiveness and to pray further about my specific situations. And most of all I know that every time I fail to reconcile this situation I am in direct rebellion against Christ's Spirit.
And I also know this about the Lord:
Psalm 51:17
"A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise"
I know that the Lord commands:
Colossians 3:13
"Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
And I know that I must replace bitterness with compassion:
Ephesians 4:31-32
"Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
Friends, join with me in spending time reading these verses slowly, letting them "wash" our hearts. Journal any insights or prayers that arise, focusing on how God is speaking to our situations. Ask God to bless the one who’s wronged you (Matthew 5:44). This can soften your heart and align it with Christ’s love. If reconciliation feels impossible, start with an internal act of forgiveness, surrendering your resentment to God. If the situation is complex or deeply painful, consider confiding in a trusted spiritual mentor or pastor for guidance on forgiveness and healing. And if all else fails, hold your tongue. A holy peace is a blessing from God.
Silence can be a powerful act of obedience, preventing further harm and inviting God’s peace:
James 1:19
"Be quick to listen, slow to speak"
A "holy peace" as a blessing from God is a beautiful reminder of Philippians 4:7, where God’s peace guards our hearts.
Philippians 4:7
"And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come together, seeking Your cleansing grace as Jesus washed His disciples’ feet. Let Your Word wash our hearts, removing the filth of unforgiveness, bitterness, and hurt. Holy Spirit, reveal where we’ve held onto resentment, and give us courage to forgive as You forgive us. We pray for those who’ve wronged us, bless them with Your love and mercy. For those struggling with deep pain, provide wise mentors and Your healing peace. When words fail, grant us holy silence and Your peace that surpasses understanding. Thank You for Your mercy that restores our fellowship with You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.