Living Godly Lives in a Pagan Society
1 Peter 2:11-12
"Beloved, I urge you as foreigners and strangers to abstain from fleshly lusts, which wage war against the soul. Keep your [manner of living] behavior excellent among the Gentiles, so that in the thing in which they slander you as evildoers, they may [as a result of] because of your good deeds, as they observe them, glorify God on the day of [Christ's coming in judgment] visitation."
Unbelievers often are convinced to Christian conversion by what they see in the character and lifestyle of the Christian witness. We see this very often in the prison ministry. And this is why the ongoing nature of our Kairos ministry is so very important. Developing that familiar relationship between the team and the inside community is critical to fulfilling the spirit of reconciliation and friendship with God.
In our passage today and even throughout this chapter and into the next, Peter calls believers to a distinctive lifestyle in a pagan society. And that's truly the thing when we talk about faith not being alone.
Faith is not alone because genuine faith will present in a "distinctive lifestyle". Genuine faith will always express itself in a transformed, visible way of life that bears fruit (saving souls, finding the lost sheep). This fruit includes character (the fruit of the Spirit), good deeds that glorify God, and the mission of the church. When Christ is precious to us, we naturally live as sojourners whose conduct points others to the Chief Cornerstone.
The good soil produces a harvest. The faithful servants multiply what they were given. The prodigal comes home. All of it flows from treasuring the Giver; and it results in a lifestyle that stands out in a pagan world and draws people to God.
Consistent, relational presence that bears the fruit of finding lost sheep and showing them the Shepherd is evangelism and an important aspect, and vital expression of the nurturing minister's gift. It’s not flashy, but it is deeply effective because it mirrors how Jesus reached people; through relationship, compassion, and consistent truth spoken in love. This is the kind of "excellent behavior" Peter calls for conduct that, even when slandered, can lead others to glorify God on the day of visitation.
Be Christ-like
"Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor." (1 Peter 2:17)
Honor everyone, showing basic human dignity to all. Love the brotherhood especially. Do not rail against railing; do not debate for the sake of debate. Avoid retaliation and returning evil for evil. Give the proper respect for authority, even when it’s pagan or hostile. In our prison ministry we having a saying, "When we’re in the warden’s house, we conduct ourselves in the way that honors the rules of the house." In order to achieve the goals of the program there needs to be submission to the rules of the warden's house. And last but not least, fear God, the foundation that keeps all other responses in proper order.
This is not compromise. This is wise stewardship that allows the gospel to advance. Prison ministry has deep roots in the Christian tradition, often driven by the command to visit those in prison (Matthew 25:36) and the example of Jesus and the apostles who spent time in custody. You've maybe seen the meme showing the names of the various apostles and Jesus and states that they were all convicts.
To be like Jesus you must have a tender heart. Think about how often we read that, "and Jesus had compassion on them". His compassion moved Him to heal, teach, forgive, and give His life. A tender heart like His produces the honor, love, patience, and endurance Peter calls for.
This tender heart drove Jesus and the disciples to sacrifice everything for the ministry.
Paul (Saul of Tarsus), shipwrecked, beaten with rods, stoned and left for dead. Imprisoned in Rome, writing most of the New Testament while in prison, and ultimately beheaded under Nero.
Peter, imprisoned multiple times. Miraculously freed from prison by an angel. Crucified upside down in Rome under Nero.
James (son of Zebedee), beheaded by Herod Agrippa. John, exiled to the island of Patmos. Andrew, crucified. Thomas, speared to death in India. Matthew, martyred in Ethiopia. Nathanael, Flayed alive and beheaded. Simon the Zealot, sawn in half. Stephen and Matthias, stoned to death. Jesus of Nazareth, an innocent man, tried and convicted to death by crucifixion.
Almost all of the first church faced arrest, imprisonment, persecution, or execution. They were "convicts" in the eyes of the authorities; yet God used them to spread the gospel across the Roman Empire and beyond. Their stories remind us that past failures, prison records, or societal rejection do not disqualify anyone from God’s kingdom or service. The same grace that transformed these men is available today. Many "modern convicts" have become powerful witnesses, just like the original crew.
A tender heart that treasures Christ as precious will always produce a distinctive lifestyle; one of compassion, honor, submission for the Lord’s sake, and a bold yet humble witness. This is the fruit of genuine faith. This is faith that is not alone, living as sojourners whose excellent conduct glorifies God.
Amen.